Saturday, November 10, 2007/ 8:42 PM
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. & someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
Being all sentimental here. Nah, not mood swing. Just a random thought.
I have been blog surfing the past few days. I found that there are some kind of contradictions. Some say friendship don't last, love lasts. But on the other hand, some say love don't last, but friendship does.
So i was wondering which one is correct. Cos you see, those who said love don't last usually come from those who already broke up with their partner whereas those who haven't and are still in good terms, say love is ever-lasting. Now when it comes to friendship, it is the direct opposite. For those who broke up with their partner, would say that treasuring friendship is better than treasuring love. And those who are in good terms would say friends can be made anew.
I'm like so confused with this. So which one is better? Am i wrong to say that if one who wants both friends and love are considered greedy and in the end, turn out to be selfish? And that when one wants either one, they are considered one-sided and incomplete?
Put this situation in my shoes (or maybe your shoes). What if you have this very best, good-hearted, ever-so-caring, one and only friend you've got who you can trust and all since small. And also, you have your loved one; you admire, your beautiful/handsome, your one and only too. And that you want both of them with you. But both needs your time spent with them equally and fairly. Will you able to perform that? What if you spend time with your friend, and that your bf/gf got jealous and thinks that you don't care about him/her already.
So would you consider about either having friendship be treasured or love? Think about it. Cos i know i am.Labels: confused
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